Saturday, October 30, 2010

Guest Post with Scott Nicholson and Giveaway of a Kindle DX! (Contest Now Closed)

Drummer Boy: For the Misfits
By Scott Nicholson


No surprise to those who have followed the blog tour and my career, but I am a misfit kid.

I’ve come to believe we’re all misfits, and we are all on a difficult journey of varying lengths. As I child, I remember being painfully self-aware and sensitive, and even at an early age I couldn’t understand casual racism or hatred, especially in adults. We grew up in poverty—not really the welfare kind, but the kind where we lived in tiny mobile homes—and it was easy to learn the lesson that life wasn’t always fair and we all didn’t live happily ever after.

I was one of five boys, and we relied on our imaginations in place of store-bought toys. We’d create entire worlds in the dirt, building tiny roads and towns with our broken trucks and bulldozers, playing “war,” and prowling in the dump. But I was the most internally oriented of the five boys, and often sought my “alone time” to read or play with crayons and paper.


My novel Drummer Boy is an attempt to capture that feeling of being a misfit. Eighth-graders Bobby Eldreth and Vernon Ray Davis are best friends, but they hang out with local tough guy Dex McAllister. When the boys explore a legendary haunted cave on a remote mountain, their world is changed forever when the spirits inside begin stirring.

While on the surface it’s a ghost story drawn from an authentic local legend of Civil War soldiers trapped in a cave, the character of Vernon Ray was the driving force that compelled me to finish the book. Vernon Ray is struggling to accept that he is gay, and though Bobby suspects it, too, he doesn’t let it stand in the way of friendship—until he is confronted by Vernon Ray’s attraction to him.

I don’t think of it as a “gay novel,” because to me it’s about otherness, being different, and that’s just one way people can be made to feel abnormal—the same as little Jerry Shepherd, “The Vampire Shortstop” in Flowers; Freeman Mills, the telepathic kid in Troubled; and Jett, the little stoner Gothling in Solom. I seem to use a lot of misfit kids as characters.

But misfits always find their way in the world, even someone like Vernon Ray, who finds himself caught between the real world that doesn’t want him and the supernatural world in which he doesn’t belong.

We all march to the beat of a different drummer, one only we can hear, and we march on paths that have never been blazed. But the paths are constantly intersecting, and at least we can all be different together.

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Scott Nicholson is author of 12 novels, including the thrillers Speed Dating with the Dead, Drummer Boy, Forever Never Ends, The Skull Ring, As I Die Lying, Burial to Follow ,and They Hunger. His revised novels for the U.K. Kindle are Creative Spirit, Troubled, and Solom. He’s also written four comic series, six screenplays, and more than 60 short stories. His story collections include Ashes, The First, Murdermouth: Zombie Bits, and Flowers.
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Kindle DX Contest! (Contest Now Closed) 

To be eligible for the Kindle DX, simply post a comment below with contact info. Feel free to debate and discuss the topic, but you will only be entered once per blog. Visit all the blogs on the tour and increase your odds. I’m also giving away a Kindle 3 through the tour newsletter and a Pandora’s Box of free e-books to a follower of “hauntedcomputer” on Twitter. Thanks for playing. Complete details at http://www.hauntedcomputer.com/blogtour.htm

114 comments:

  1. I think it is better to be a misfit. I think a lot of kids now a days don't have good imaginations because of all the stuff they have. Some of my favorite childhood memories are playing house with our water bottle babies.
    Thanks for the great post and awesome contest!!
    chickenherder@hotmail.com

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  3. I am definitely a misfit, but it came later in life (although if truth be known I probably was one as a kid too)Now though as get closer and closer to the senior citizen side of life, my misfit status is a bit more glaring. After all I am still reading YA books, I still love to learn, (I'd be a professional student if I could afford it) I teach among a bunch of guy all younger than me of course, and my social life revolves around my blog. But I am a happy misfit and that my friend makes all the difference in the world!

    vonharzj@gmail.com

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  4. I have always been a misfit trying to fit in. As you get older you realize you can only be you! I wish kids could learn this earlier in life, as I try to teach my daughter, but she just can't get past not fitting in yet and she is 17!
    I'm just glad I'm there for her when she comes home upset!
    KIDS can be so mean!!!

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  5. Thanks for the great post! Please enter me in the contest!

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  6. Onge, make-believe is somethingw e should never grow out of

    Jan, how cool to become a misfit later on!

    Darkreader kids find their own way, not our way. All we can do is love 'em

    Scott

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  7. Cute photo but FIVE boys? What a chore for your mother. I can relate to the misfit part, one reason I loved Drummer Boy.
    Christa
    cpolkinhorn@msn.com

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  8. Thanks for the great post! I definitely have to check this book out.

    apereiraorama @ gmail.com

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  9. Again, I love the background stories of your books. Thanks for sharing.

    randymir@gmail.com

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  10. Imagination is the best toy ever.
    xlacrimax at gmail dot com

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  11. I always try to encourage my son to use his imagination. Like you, I didn't grow up with much, but we used what we had: our minds and our friendships to fill our days and nights. We were never bored! I think this kind of upbringing makes us stronger and very resourceful. I try very hard to instill this into my son now, even with all of the toys he has!

    Thanks for the great post and contest!

    Lou

    readerrecommended@yahoo.com

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  12. Thanks for the chance to win.
    bkhabel at gmail dot com

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  13. There is no such thing as "normal" :)

    inannajourney at gmail dot com

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  14. This book will definitely be put on my TBR list (which grows daily)!

    Thanks for the contest =)

    bannedbookreader@gmail.com

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  15. otherness and being a misfit is hard on kids but if they make it through the teen years I think our most creative thinkers come from that group. Thanks for writing a book that explores that on some level.

    deedeekm@gmail.com

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  16. I have always been a misfit. I have never fit in. Thanks for the giveaway. Please enter me in contest. Tore923@aol.com

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  17. I always have been & probably always will be a misfit. As a kid we were poor. I was one of two or three kids that never had all the 'in' clothes, toys or whatever. And I never cared. Even back than I figured that if people weren't going to look past my possessions, that was their problem & their loss.
    teawench at gmail dot com

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  18. Tonka Toys--yes!
    Scott, count me in for the Kindle.
    Paul
    mrlucky@charter.net

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  19. I too was a misfit child, (hello fellow misfits!)

    No matter what I did, I just couldn't fit in. Sometimes I'm glad I didn't. I think I have different perspectives on things than my past peers because of that and an over-active imagination. I was by myself a lot as a kid and all I had were my books. So I spent a good portion of my time making up stories and other worlds that were more fun than the one I was living in.

    I've never read anything by Scott Nicholson

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  20. Oops! I wasn't done with my comment. LOL!

    I've never read anything by Scott Nicholson but I will get on that because his books sound really interesting.

    Okay, now I'm done.

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  21. Cute picture!

    Enter me please :D
    ashleysbookshelf@gmail.com

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  22. Thanks for the chance to win.
    cjwallace43 at gmail dot com

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  23. Drummer Boy was one of my favorite books read this year. I highly recommend it to fellow horror story readers. I just finished The Dome by Stephen King and really enjoyed that one as well. Glad writers are out there giving us pleasurable good reads. Thanks Scott. Reg

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  24. This sounds not only like a good book, but like an important book. I'd love to enter. I can be reached via DM on Twitter at:
    @HeatherMcCorkle

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  25. Great post! Count me in please!

    vicky.vak8(at)gmail.com

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  26. It took a long time for me to realize what it meant to just be yourself. Eventually I found my place, not really caring what others thought, and discovered my own style and look. It took living somewhere where I had no friends and had to go on a voyage of self discovery in my own mind and imagination.
    I love ivy caps, those more popular with most retired old men that grew up in the 30's and 40's. I have a small assortment that I wear now, happily. While simple, this was just an outward expression of my own acceptance of who I was.
    I wish most of us could find this at an earlier age instead of trying to model ourselves after the local fahion and keep up with the Joneses. As a teacher, I see it every day and wish I could help the students find their own way, but I guess that is a life experience we must all endure at our own pace.
    The book sounds like it does just that and more. I look forward to reading it.

    Wakincade AT gmail DOT com

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  27. Thanks for the post!
    chey127 at hotmail dot com

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  28. And look at you now, Scott, you've turned that world of a misfit into very thought provoking stories.


    caity_mack at yahoo dot com

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  29. Great blog post!

    monacart32 at hotmail dot com

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  30. I imagine that four brothers would cause troubles and/or blessings, depends where you fit in. I thought that I grew up at a great disadvantage in that I had three sisters and no brothers. Even the dog was a girl! My maternal grandfather always gave me the "big deal" speech in that he grew up with five sisters. He had been dressed up in a tutu and makeup like I had... but we survived. Most of my favorite films have misfits making good. I thought initially of the little elf/dentist on the Christmas cartoon, Rudolph, and all the misfit toys they helped that Christmas back in, what was it, 1964? So it would be neat to be counted among the misfits who amounted to something and ultimately had a happy ending.

    It seems that you turned out pretty well for a misfit, Scott.

    Jeff White.... whitejw@ameritech.net

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  31. Wow.....awesome story contest.. I have to check those one out! By the way.....love the bow tie! I.pearson@ comcast.net

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  32. great post! I'd love to be entered to win the kindle too ....Tiffypoot @ (aol.com)

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  33. love the guest posting.

    eddiem11@ca.rr.com

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  34. This seems to be a timely subject matter and makes an interesting read. :)

    ~smooches~
    Jase
    vslavetopassionv(at)aol(dot)com

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  35. I know what it is like to e a misfit---and poor to boot.

    kissinoak at frontier dot com

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  36. Thanks for the chance to win!

    kt1969 at comcast dot net

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  37. But if we are all misfits - wouldn't that make us, in reality, not misfits?

    calseeor (at) gmail (dot) com

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  38. Me, misfit? Yap. Thanks for another entry.

    dorcontest at gmail dot com

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  39. “Man is physically as well as metaphysically a thing of shreds and patches, borrowed unequally from good and bad ancestors, and a misfit from the start” --- Emerson

    Barry
    anamchara@gmail.com

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  40. I was a misfit because I couldn't be easily put into any one category in school. I wasn't a jock, or a freak, or a geek - I just kept to myself and found others who didn't fall into any one group, either.

    Margay1122(at)aol(dot)com

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  41. I'm more of a misfit now than when I was a kid, I'm just not all that comfortable socially.

    My kids all definitely march to the beat of a different drummer, especially my 18-year-old daughter. She's the artsy type - ballet, bookworm, theater, etc. and has a hard time finding friends with similar interests. Hopefully, she'll grow into herself and find people who appreciate her.

    lorraine_lanning[at]yahoo[dot]com

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  42. It's better to be a misfit than a plastic! I'm proudly raising my kids to march to the beat of their own drums, who hat's to be that same as everyone else anyway?
    emily_erickson@yahoo.com

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  43. Wow, this is an inspiring post. I definitely understand the "misfit" feeling and being sensitive as a child... and now too actually!

    stephaniet117 at yahoo dot com

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  44. Great post. Greetings from a fellow misfit.

    dlodden at frontiernet dot net

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  45. would love to win, thanks!

    bunkercomplexATgmailDOTcom

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  46. I'm surrounded by misfits. Hm, am I the misfit?

    byonge@lonepinetv.com

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  47. Well isn't that just the cutest picture?!

    b(dot)cardone(at)hotmail(dot)com

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  48. I have always been a little different but I wouldn't want in any other way. I am who I am.
    jedoggett@embarqmail.com

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  49. I definitely march to the beat of a different drum. I stick out like a sore thumb sometimes. :)

    -Neal

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  50. I love this cover & the story too. It's a winner.

    dwdorow@gmail.com
    ThrillersRus.blogspot.com

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  51. I am a poor boy, too barump-abum-bum.

    Shall I play for you barump-abum-bum,

    On my drum?

    Twitter: MachineTrooper.

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  52. I enjoyed this post, It's relevant to some current issues and a great testiment to anyone who feels different (most of us do at one time or another) and how success can come from our uniqueness. Thank you.

    waitmantwillie at hotmail dot com

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  53. always have been and always will be a misfit!! I am currently teaching my son and daughter the fine art of being a misfit! Thanks for this great post!

    anamlgrl@yahoo.com

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  54. Love it!

    coriwestphal at msn dot com
    @coriwestphal

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  55. I felt like a misfit when I was younger but not as an adult. Thank you.
    iloveegypt602 at yahoo dot com

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  57. I was a misfit because I was not strong enough to play games that required running or over doing what the other kids did. I started reading at a young age to compensate.

    The kids today have so many "things" to play with that keep them indoors. They no longer use their imagination or invent games to play outside. This means more obese kids than ever before. We caught lighting bugs in jars, went to lake and got tadpoles to watch change into frogs. We laid on our backs and found things in the clouds. The children of today are missing so much that we were able to do because they don't use their imagination but watch TV, videos and have other electronics.

    Hi Scott, I am still following you.

    misskallie2000 at yahoo dot com

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  58. What a lovely posting Scott. Looks like there are quite a few misfits out there.
    I agree with some of the other comments about how kids are growing up today. It was fun to create worlds when I was younger, finding the fairies in little hollows along the river banks and I think kids today miss out on stuff like that. Nice to be able to step away from "real" life every once in a while and be a little quirky.
    Thanks again.
    Julie
    pjtansey@hotmail.com

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  59. I grew up the same Way Kids now days in my Family do not Know how Easy thay have it.With computers and Toys and things all Thay have now days And there not happy Because thay have Friends That live a Very rich life.There lucky that thay have clothes to where and food to eat not always so when i was a kid.and don't get me stated about misfit I was the Kid that was always sick with asthma ans Had to take an Inhaler every where.
    sasluvbooks(at)yahoo.com

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  60. I really liked "Drummer Boy".

    bluefrog62@yahoo.com

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  61. thanks for the comments--I think people who feel like misfits tend to read more and be smarter and more sensitive, or maybe it just seems that way. It's great to see some new people on the tour. I hope you all have a happy Halloween.

    And please spread the word about Disintegration Nov. 1 to help double your chances of winning a Kindle.

    Scott

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  62. I would LOVE a Kindle DX. Thanks for the opportunity to win one! :)

    P.S. Click on my name for my contact info. ;)

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  63. I think boys have lost the feeling of playing in the dirt and making forts and such. Back in the day, children had to think of different ways to play. Now, not so much.
    plhouston(at)bellsouth(dot)net

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  64. Love the idea of a misfit story, just being different can cause problems for many - but those differences need to be embraced!
    booksake(at)yahoo(dot)com

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  65. I think ev everyone is a misfit in some way... or maybe I just feel that way as a misfit myself. Ha ha. Our our mis-fits make us unique.

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  66. We had to be creative with toys when I was a kid too. We had very few and there were 5 of us to share them.
    I think we all feel like misfits to a certain degree.
    candace_redinger at yahoo dot com

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  67. There's really no such thing as normal...we're all misfits. Great post and the plot for Drummer Boy sounds brilliant!

    jamesemr (at) gmail (dot) com.

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  68. Enjoying the tour!

    Happy Halloween to everyone!

    dreamer dot ima at gmail dot com

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  69. Love it!

    Joe F.
    josephafisch@gmail.com

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  70. Sounds like there are more of us misfits than there are fits, so that's good to know. varbonoff22 at cox dot net

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  71. Sounds like there are more of us misfits than there are fits, so that's good to know. varbonoff22 at cox dot net

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  72. i think misfits have the most fun anyways ;0)

    hancoci_s at msn dot com

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  73. Nothing wrong with being a misfit. I was a misfit as a kid and I still am which is fine by me.

    dalelmurphy(at)gravesidetales(dot)com

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  74. I was a misfit myself. However I think bullying these days is worse because of cyberbullying. At my old high school, there have been four suicides in two years. So sad. kristiedonelson(at)gmail(dot)com

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  75. Just saw this posted on the Amazon Kindle page:

    "Scott Nicholson's DISINTEGRATION, Hallowe'en KND sponsor, is now #1 Kindle Mover+Shaker"

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  76. Scott, why isn't "Troubled" currently available at Amazon?

    Write2Bev@gmail.com

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  77. Misfit tomboy in my youth.. lol
    Count me in for the Kindle! :D

    LaQuiet(at)gmail(dot)com

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  78. My son was a misfit. now he has somehow reformed. I remain a proud misfit.

    lkish77123 at gmail dot com

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  79. If you can survive the bullying that often comes with being a misfit, I think it makes you better prepared for life than being one of the "in" kids. All the most interesting people I know were or are misfits in one way or another, and they are all successful, creative people.

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  80. Nothing quite like a huge backwoods to explore in order to keep a group of tween boys occupied. Beats the heck out of the mall, if you ask me.

    therabidfox[at]gmail.com

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  81. I'm definitely a misfit. Luckily, my friends are misfits too. Count me in for the Kindle.

    hufflepuffgrl13@yahoo.com

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  82. Another book to be added to my ever growing tbr list. Thanks for the chance to win a kindle! Shari

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  83. great prize!

    bsw529 at gmail dot com

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  84. I feel like a misfit...every since childhood. :)



    purposedrivenlife4you at gmail dot com

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  85. Fitting in is overrated, anyway...says I.

    schalazeal @ gmail . com

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  86. Trying to "fit in" is something we all struggle with in early life. I find that marching to the beat of my own drum gets easier and easier with age. I remember celebrating my 40th birthday saying "Free at 40"...well I said that at 50 too! Society puts too much pressure on fitting in and I am appreciating Vernon Ray and some of the thoughts that go through his mind.
    xox
    Nancy

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  87. I think that we all struggle to try and "fit in" at some point in our lives and that starts early. I see it with my 5 year old already and I can't believe it. "I need to have [insert toy here] because so-and-so has it" and ESPECIALLY with my 8th grade students. Oh the life of teenagers! But I quite enjoyed being a misfit in my days (and still do). I have no problems doing my own thing and not letting what others think of me bother me. Now, sometimes it does (I can't lie) but I try to let it roll off my back! Thanks for a great giveaway!!

    xoxo
    jennie

    randomchalktalk at gmail dot com

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  88. everyone is a misfit at one time or another. But watching your children go through it is the worse:(

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  89. "Otherness" has become more of a problem lately. I don't understand why this country is becoming, in general, less tolerant of those who aren't up to the "beautiful people" standard. Bullying is on the rise, teasing is getting worse, and acceptance is harxder to gain. Comment like the recent one byh the young woman whos felt the actors is a new shoe were too fat to be on TV nad have their show are typical. Not everyone is a size 2 and beautiful, so deal with it. A bit of reality doesn't hurt, and being a size 2 and beautiful doesn't make you a better person. Being gay is more accepted in the media, but still dangerous in the real world.

    librarypat AT comcast DOT net

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  90. Nice post. I was definitely a misfit during my schooling years due to me not being an athletic person and being too smart.

    As I got older, I've found that there are much more people out there who can appreciate for who I am. And that is a nice feeling to have. :)

    -Jesse
    conrad.jd (at) gmail (dot) com

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  91. This entry is for Maragret Steve Cochran who couldn't get int to post-:
    "guess I must confess to being technologically challenged. Anyway I want a
    Kindle that bad.

    Fear of rejection? Not this one."

    Thanks for your help everyone in promoting Disintegration and As I Die Lying.

    Pat, I am not sure social ills are on the rise--I think loud, obnoxious TV screamers are getting louder microphones, that's all. Most people I know live generously, kindly, peacefully, and happily.

    Scott

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  92. I was a misfit, very shy. I spent more time with books than people.
    I have managed to overcome this and relate to people now.


    andrea.infinger@gmail.com

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  93. Scott, you were a misfit as a child? Imagine that! I guess some things never change... Oh wait, I DO recall when you ran away to the Island of Misfit Toys...and were REJECTED! That was quite the blow as I recall. I don't think you EVER recovered (as your books seem to suggest...not to mention your odd attraction to goats. I guess they never say "NO," huh?).

    I know it is incredibly difficult to believe, but I have recently labeled myself a "misfit" in a sense. Shocking, but all too TRUE!! Yes, during my recent move, I came across all of these clothes--crammed in to the back of the closet or stuffed in drawers-- that I simply can NOT fit into any more. But, instead of ME being the misfit, I blame the clothes...THEY are the "misfits" since they REFUSE to conform to my ever-expanding, uh..."physique"! Quite SCANDALOUS! But I say who cares? They are all so "last year" (or last DECADE) anyway!

    Blah! Blah! Blah! Just ignore me as usual. I'm trying to catch up...

    CHEERS!

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  94. New Scott Nicholson book? Hell yeah!

    smd (at) texoma (dot) net

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  95. Thanks for sharing.

    bacchus76 at myself dot com

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  96. Okay this book looks wonderful, and it seems like a bit of a change from your normal writings/subjects. This book looks the most interesting to me and I'm going to order it now.
    hmhenderson AT yahoo DOT com

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  97. It's funny how it takes one misfit to understand another huh?

    kellysydow at yahoo dot com

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  98. I was always the "new kid on the block" (we moved about every two years). Not quite a misfit, but still on the outside looking in.

    dulcibelle [at] earthlink [dot] net.

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  99. I hear you. I’m the black sheep of my family as well, my desire to march to my own drummer having been the cause of countless arguments, debates, frustrations and, eventually, my leaving home . . . twice.

    Perhaps creative people--as pretentious as this sounds--fall in that category more than others as we see the world differently than “practical” people and we’re often the ones more easily able to take risks, live on less and just roll with the punches of life because we can always retreat inward to escape.

    It’s cool to have that ability and to know that wherever you are, you can journey inside and live a brand new life internally without the need of a book or television. This also gives us the ability to project those internal worlds outward and provide escape for those who have a less-active imagination and tend to get down with the struggle that is life.

    The only times I get scared is when reality and fantasy merge and I sometimes have trouble telling the difference. But at the same time, having the echoes of reality bouncing around my head, I’m thankful that when those lines do merge, I’m not stuck living in a world that’s cruel, unkind and just loves to beat people down.

    Viva la escapism!

    Coscomentertainment [at] gmail [dot] com

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    POSSESSION OF THE DEAD and ZOMBIE FIGHT NIGHT (and others) for just TWO BUCKS at the Amazon Kindle store. Grab your copies here!

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  100. Sometimes I'm a bit of a misfit, but mostly I'm that average good girl.

    *sigh* oh well!

    gem.wood@gmail.com

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  101. This book sounds good; I look forward in reading it and your other works.

    Thanks,
    Tracey D
    booklover0226 at gmail dot com

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  102. Hey Scott,

    I too am a misfit and man I'll probably relate to Vernon Ray.

    I was a misfit -- my clothes were never right, I wasn't into sports and had trouble running (asthma that no one caught until my 30s), I read, had trouble making friends and was called all sorts of name in school.

    Still I'd rather be me than anyone else -- even if they had an easier childhood.

    Thanks for the contest,
    Greg "The Undead Rat" Fisher

    theundeadrat (@) gmail (.) com

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  103. Thanks!
    Emily ebdye1(at)gmail(dot)com

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  104. great blog page.. love it!

    stephanie(.)pridgen(@)gmail(.)com

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  105. My sister and I used to play out in our babysitter's old barn. We would move piles of straw from one end to the other with pitchforks and hide in the old stalls. Looking back on it, we probably shouldn't have been out there, but we were playing "farm" and using our imaginations... How many kids these days do that? Different times, but she and I are still avid readers - maybe developing a good imagination helps?

    emilyking630 at yahoo dot com

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  106. My sister and I were very imaginative in our play and had a lot of fun, but one thing that was always a constant for me was reading. I always had a book with me, everywhere I went. I read at restaurants while waiting for the food to arrive, I read on car rides, I read in class after finishing tests or during study hall, and I even read while sun bathing. Reading has remained a constant in my life. I read whenever I get the chance and I NEVER leave the house without a book!

    Drummer Boy sounds like another great book! Also, I enjoyed your post over at my blog. We have similar reading taste!

    truebookaddictATgmailDOTcom

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  107. I am still a Misfit in many ways. I was tortured in school because I wouldn't play sports, liked playing with girls, loved Barbie, loved make-up and other girly things. I did like some boy things--I would sometimes get the urge to have Barbie have an earthquake or a car crash. I liked GI Joe 'cuz his head was fuzzy and you could stretch his arms and legs out real crazy cause of the rubberized cords inside of him.

    I would cry at the Wizard of Oz because I felt so bad for Dorothy being treated so mean by the witch. Seeing hurt animals or people being treated cruelly would send me to tears.

    I loved to read (how many boys loved to read?) and my favorite books were Fairy Tales and Classics like Alice In Wonderland, The Velveteen Rabbit and of course, horror comics.

    I felt sorry for Frankenstein's Monster because no body wanted him. Some monsters were just misunderstood. I think that's why I loved Horror because so many of the characters in them are misfits, too, like Carrie White.


    It still is tough today because a lot of Gay Men reject me because I am not "masculine" enough. As i said to my Drag Queen Sister--it is a hard road to walk. In flats.

    You find love and acceptance where you can. I've been blessed with a wonderful man who has loved me for 21 years. He's the kind of guy who can fix things, loves Craftsman Tools, action films like Die Hard while I am the one who cooks and loves make-up, hanging with the gals and such.

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  108. I think that most people consider others who are different as misfits (i.e. 'special', gay, lesbians, etc.). I accept people the way they are and consider that I am mostly 'normal' (whatever that is) but have always thought that I don't belong. I think everyone goes through this phaze one time or another.

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    -Jessica

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  109. I have always been an outsider trying to fit in as you get older, you realize you can be you! I want the children to learn earlier in life than trying to teach my daughter.
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